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Change of Roads

By Salman Hassan [Salman Zuberi Hussain] (Founder/Owner) [Written in Third-Person]

March 9th, 2025 at 2:43pm

Change of Roads

So in life avenues always change and the direction people go always change. Hence the title, Change of Roads. When looking back in life a lot of us would be disappointed and/or upset about time wasted. When it comes to sports so many put their time and effort into wanting to be in the NBA/NFL/MLB/FIFA etc… but many don’t make it and that means it’s time to change roads. Maybe take your talent of not making it and becoming an influencer to continue growth in the respective sport one played because the passion of the sport always stays. Maybe taking your passion for sports and the focus of energy into entrepreneurial activities. When looking back only a select few are happy with their growth and only a few are happy with what they have achieved. Many regret the time they wasted. In life some are wealthy and some are not but in life, life is all about dreams so everyone in life goes through change of roads.

It's Never Too Late

So in life, it’s never too late to change your life and think for the better. As kids, we all do make mistakes and we all do waste our time here and there but we should never do so. Life is seriously short and one wants to enjoy life and many do take account and put a certain respect level. When one looks back at his/her life maybe they used to joke around, maybe they used to try to fit in, maybe they tried to be cool, but in life things do change and respect level does change. Sometimes things happen where people go against you and where people are not on your team, but that’s life. One has to earn respect by being resilient and not caring much about anyone’s opinion and also realizing that in life we’re all meant to be used. Some are used for corporate, some are used for themselves. We are all meant to be used in some shape or form. Some profit a lot off of people being used, but that itself is a talent and takes discipline. That also takes convincing as well because many in life don’t like to get used. Back to the point of never being too late. In life there never is a timeframe when it comes to being successful but one must change roads and/or change avenues. Many talents do have a time frame and many talents are difficult but it’s never too late to take this talent and adjust to another talent.

Emotional Damage

In life, we all react to certain things a certain way. Let’s say as a kid you’re hungry and want food. If one doesn’t get food then from there what happens is the kid gets upset. This causes emotional damage. How would the kid take this? Since the kid is young, the kid most likely will take it as my parents don’t like me, but if the kid is smart, he’ll take it as I have to feed myself maybe or I have to get the food for myself. Each person has their own emotional reaction and to be honest depending on perspective one might say it’s right or wrong. When it comes to emotion it’s all about perspective and/or whom or what the perspective is coming from. If the parent in this situation is trying to prove a point to their child, then from there it’s a good perspective for the child to understand that in life there are no handouts. When one dives deeper into emotional damage, if one is chasing something in life, their emotional damage strength increases as they’re used to things not going their way. So let’s say one is shooting hoops. When one misses a shot, emotionally they take damage as the intent was to make the shot. Let’s say one takes 1,000 shots and misses all of them. Emotionally they’re damaged and now they might not want to take the next shot. Then let’s say one makes a shot, 1,001. The emotional high will be tremendous most likely and then one will want to continue. To wrap this topic up, emotional damage strength is increased when one tries to be successful at something, whatever it is. Let’s say one is chasing their dream, their emotional damage strength increases dramatically because they’re used to failing over and over again and then eventually they become so successful all they expect is things to go their way every time as the energy they put out is what they need to succeed.

Learning Through Trial and Error

When changing roads ones who have experience with trial and error are the ones who succeed. People who are able to adjust and people who are able to deal with things going the wrong way. That’s how one is able to succeed and change roads because mentally they’re used to things not going the right way, and then they continue to try try and try. When one continues to try then from there changing roads becomes something easy. The only issue with changing roads when one is trying to succeed is knowing when to stop chasing something. One might get caught up in chasing their dream and not knowing when to adjust. Suggestion here is having development plans and mental health plans here for people who chase their dream for free so this way they can take their talent and adjust elsewhere and have good organization. If anyone is chasing their dream in any shape fashion or form be really careful as they can become really really successful and then from there make their real dreams come true. The more we help each other, the more chances of growing and succeeding as there’s so much talent in this world because every day counts and it’s a must that one understands if one competes with each other too much then things can go left people can infiltrate and all sorts of things can go insane. It’s important to stick with good people and stick with people who have a dream and vision and are focused on growth every single day. If focused on growth and working together much more can be accomplished. If you look at the most successful they don’t care about money they care about growth.